Popular Relationship and marriage Counsellor, George Lutterodt has dished a piece of advice to men regarding how they choose the women to settle with.
According to Counsellor Lutterodt, it is wrong for a man to choose to settle with a woman simply because she helped him when he was down.
He indicated that a woman’s help should not be enough reason to marry her.
Speaking on one of his Instagram live sessions, Counsellor Lutterodt opined that men shouldn’t compensate women with marriage when they help them.
“There are women that are supposed to help us buy houses, help us build shrines, help us build churches, but they are not supposed to become wives. They are not supposed to be wives. We don’t compensate women with marriage when they help us.
“Madam, hear me if you are helping a man to build a business, and he feels so excited. And keeps saying that if not for you, the company wouldn’t grow, and I don’t know what to do for you so that God would forgive my sins. All that I need now is to marry you so that everything ends. Princess, if you help that man and he marries you, you will suffer. Let a man marry you out of his won free will. Let him marry you because he knows in his heart that you deserve to be a wife,” Counsellor Lutterodt disclosed.
“Let us learn that being a baby mama has a rule. Follow the rule. I keep saying that when a woman legitimately and lawfully decides to have a child with a man whiles you are not married, I am not against you, but you need to understand the protocols that are involved in taking seed for a man that is not married to you. Because there are things that must happen to married women with children. And some things must happen to women who are just baby mamas.” He added.