When you lack good communication in your relationship or marriage, it will have ripple effect on your s£xual gratification.
The complaints we often hear from most women about s£x, indicate that the communication line between them and their spouses is faulty.
It has become so common among many women of our time to tag good s£x with long minutes of vigorous penetration and thrusting. Some even want penetration and thrusting to last for several hours. And when the men are not meeting up to their unrealistic desires, they tag the men as weak in bed. But penetration is just part of s£x and not all what good s£x is about.
This inconsiderable s£xual desire and expectation from women has caused so many men their health and eventually, their lives. Because most men had to resort to taking hard drugs, s£x enhancement drugs with inappreciable adverse side effects on the health of men.
Good s£x starts with communication and ends with communication.
With proper communication partners are able to know what really works for them in achieving their s£xual desires.
Good communication will tell if your partner is s£xually attracted to you in the first instance. Because it’s difficult to get satisfaction from those who are not s£xually into you.
Not so many women, especially the married ones know how to have s£xual communications with their husbands. Some women are either too shy to speak up or they rather will keep things to themselves not to be seen as wild or spoilt women. That’s why most marriages lack good s£x.
Most men cheat because of broken s£xual communication. The side chicks go all out in communicating their s£xuak desires to their men. They know how to talk dirty and act dirty in bed. This is one strength of good s£x.
Giving compliments and gifts are good starters for satisfying s£xual desires. Learn and know how to say you look good, you are my spec, I can’t wait to eat you raw etc. Let your spouse know through communication how much you want them to drive you crazy in bed. Your quietness or silent mo@ning during s3x is bad. Say something like…Give it to me baby, that’s it, fvck me right there, etc. Make good sounds….it helps the men to perform better.
Furthermore, tell your partner where your belly buttons are. Have proper romance which is the most important part of good s£x.
Do not be too spiritual with the subject of s£x. This has destroyed good s£xual communication among many partners.
Do not allow your husbands to fight for s£x. They need all that energy to enjoy and satisfy you.
Some women orgasm with or during penetrations while a good number of others do not. Communication will help to make things up. When you expand your definition of s3x and lower the pressure on orgasm and penetration, the anxiety around performance dissipates and satisfaction escalates.
Keep yourself clean. Nobody is attracted to dirt or bad odour. If you like BJ or l!cking then keep your private parts clean. Also pay attention to your mouth and body.
Make time for exercise and eat good foods.
Many married women are so careless about taking proper care of themselves. If you lose your attraction, it will affect your s£xual life.
Men are not like women. Do not compare yourself as a woman to your man.
Don’t hesitate to talk about how exactly you feel, speak up in a most romantic and polite manners.
With right communication at right time, s3x in marriage will greatly improve.