I WAS having amazing s£x with my ex’s best friend but am worried our fling is now fizzling out.
I am 29 and my ex is 30. We were together for five years and have a three-year-old boy.
Our relationship took a turn for the worse when he started hanging out with a bad gang.
He ended up assaulting someone and the final nail in the coffin was when he got a community sentence. Our relationship ended soon afterwards.
In the background, his best friend, who is 31, has always been there advising and reassuring me.
I’ve always felt there could be something more between us but it wasn’t until my ex started a new relationship that I dared considering his best friend.
So when I bumped into him in a local shop at the end of last month, there was a different feeling between us — it was really exciting.
I suggested he come over to mine for a proper catch-up and he agreed.
When he turned up three days later, I found myself agonising over my outfit and hair.
I couldn’t believe how excited I was to see him — and we ended up kissing.
Even though I then told him I’d love to see him soon, he didn’t show up until more than a week later.
That time he stayed over and we ended up having s3x.
I’ve been speaking to him since that night, but he hasn’t been round again — his excuse is he’s busy working.
I would love to be in a proper relationship with him and don’t want to play games. I can’t get him out of my head.
MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: Some men like to go after their women, and not the other way round. You have to stop being the one making the moves. Go quiet on him for some time, it may not be easy for you but it will help to value you the more.
Tell him he’s too special to you as a friend to bring s3x casually into the mix – which, of course, you should not be having with him anyway with the current coronavirus restrictions.
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Explain to him you believe the two of you have something special and that you deserve better than to be his booty call.
Your friend may be wary of becoming involved with you because he is friends with your ex.
If he wants to be in a relationship with you, then he has to decide.
Tell him that, until then, you will be friends with no benefits.
With lockdown, you have time to let him decide. But whatever he promises, don’t have s3x with him again until he has definitely made up his mind about you.
Should things not work out with him, then you have to move on without looking back.