My girlfriend wants to take nude pictures of me but I fear she’ll use them as blackmail

I WAS about to have s£x with my girlfriend when she grabbed her phone and turned the camera on to take explicit pics of me.

We’ve been together for a year. I’m 31 and a builder, while she’s 28 and works in the bakery where I buy my lunch. That’s how we met.

We had a brilliant s£x life. She’s up for anything and so was I . . . until this.

That night, she asked if I’d be open to something new.

We were having s£x every night and things had got a little repetitive.

I said yes, imagining she’d bought s£xy lingerie.

I was very turned-on — and it showed.

But when she took snaps of me, I felt really uncomfortable.

She said: “They’re for my eyes only. Every couple does it. Stop being such a prude!”

We were having sex every night and things had got a little repetitive
We were having s3x every night and things had got a little repetitiveCredit: Getty Images – Getty

But I wasn’t happy and said no. At the time she shrugged and said it was OK.

Since then, she’s brought it up several more times. But I’m not having any of it.

Last Saturday, I was all fired up for s3x but she had a “headache”.

In all our time together, I’ve never known her to suffer with headaches.

I think it’s down to my refusal.

I asked some mates about it and one said: “Don’t do it.”

She’s brought up taking picture of me several more times - but I’m not having any of it
She’s brought up taking picture of me several more times – but I’m not having any of itCredit: Getty Images – Getty

But another said: “You haven’t lived until you’ve made your own porno film.”

I don’t know whether to give in or stick to my guns.

Now I’m questioning her integrity and honesty.

She keeps asking me, so what is she playing at? Is it to blackmail me at a later date?

MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: I doubt that is what’s in her mind now.

She might want to keep them for her own personal pleasure but once a photograph is taken, there is no telling where it may end up.

You might feel you know her pretty well after a year but if you are having thoughts about blackmail and what her reasoning behind all this is, you are wise to be wary.

We have all read about celebrities who have found themselves compromised after allowing an explicit picture to be taken. It’s just not worth it.

I was about to have sex with my girlfriend when she started taking explicit pics of meCredit: Getty Images – Getty

My rule of thumb is this: Only allow a picture or footage of yourself to be taken if you are happy to show it to your parents.

Clearly you wouldn’t like anyone else to see you in this particular situation, so stick to your guns.

Talk to her about finding other ways to spice things up between you two without the camera.

In some climes, women are more careful with having their male lovers taking pictures of their nakedness or making s3x tapes of them. So I’m not so sure why the case is different with your girlfriend here.

Your instinct just might be right, so don’t shift your refusal.

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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