Threesome was amazing but it cost me my best friend and flatmate

I HAD a threesome with my best friend and my flatmate, and I feel used now because they have started a relationship.

I am a guy and my best friend is a girl I was at school with. We are both 22. Last year I landed a job in London and got a flat-share with a guy I got on really well with. He is very good looking and fit as he works out a lot.

When Covid arrived, I came back to live with my parents as I could work from home. It meant I got to be with my dog — we got him when I was 12.

Still, I missed my flatmate’s company and asked him over to stay for a weekend when the lockdown ended.

I mentioned him to my school friend and she suggested she brings us a Chinese takeaway. She had broken up with her boyfriend and wanted to take her mind off things.

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We had a good evening and then my flatmate suggested a drinking game where the loser had to take off a piece of clothing.

We had an amazing time but I didn't hear from either of them afterwards
We had an amazing time but I didn’t hear from either of them afterwardsCredit: Alamy

It was a giggle and we were all drinking massively. My parents were visiting my gran so we had the house to ourselves.

We all ended up nearly naked and somehow it turned into a threesome. We had an amazing time despite being very drunk.

The next morning we were a bit embarrassed but didn’t really speak about it and they both left. I thought of it as a one-off due to us being drunk.

After about a week I realised I hadn’t heard from my flatmate which was odd as we usually messaged most days.

I found out they've been seeing each other behind my back...I feel used
I found out they’ve been seeing each other behind my back…I feel usedCredit: Getty

I didn’t hear from my best friend either, though I’d usually meet up with her for a walk or a drink. She came up with one excuse after another not to meet.

In the end I confronted her and she said she was dating my flatmate and it was going amazingly well. I was speechless. She went to stay in the flat with him for the during that time and is still there.

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I feel totally used. I think they knew there was an instant attraction as soon as they met, in which case they should not have involved me.

I feel like I’ve been cut out since having a threesome with my best mate and my flatmateCredit: Getty

I’ve lost my closest friend and I can’t even go back to my flat when life returns to normal.

MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: You had all had a lot to drink and I doubt they were as calculating as your hurt feelings are telling you.

Be the grown-up and tell them you hope their relationship goes well. Is the real problem that you don’t have someone special in your life?

Look at how you can boost your social life, both at home and if you go back to London.

Restrictions are beginning to lift and you can start building up a good social life again.

But avoid threesomes – and any casual s3x. It puts you at high risk of catching STDs and even Covid-19.

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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