I’m giving my neighbour oral s£x but he refuses to go all the way

 I AM doing s£xual favours for my neighbour and he loves it – but he says we can’t go all the way because he’s religious.

It’s so frustrating.

I’m a divorcee of 45 and he’s 39. He’s not my usual type and I never gave him a second look before.

But during the lockdown he’d bring his guitar out after clapping for the NHS and we’d all have a sing-along.

My other neighbour told me he was a really nice guy and she said I should talk to him.

One evening when lockdown was over and he was walking past my house, I asked him to check if I had mice in my attic.

He was happy to come over and when he was up the ladder, I remarked at how nice the view was — of his bum.

I've given him sexual favours a few times and he loves it
I’ve given him sexual favours a few times and he loves itCredit: Getty Images – Getty

He looked startled but texted me later that evening to tell me I was “such a temptation” — though we couldn’t start a relationship, as he is religious and is meant to be getting engaged to a girl in Italy.

Because of the pandemic, they’d only met online and he was waiting for travel restrictions to lift.

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He didn’t want to “cheat on her”, although they’d never met for real.

I called him later and we were flirting on the phone. I mentioned that an ex of mine had left behind some tools he could have.

He was on the doorstep within minutes. He came in, we kissed and I gave him oral s3x, which he said was the best he’d ever had.

I can tell how desperate he is for me but he won’t give in
I can tell how desperate he is for me but he won’t give in

We’ve done that a few times since and he loves it, but he won’t go all the way with me.

It is so annoying. I can see the effect I have on him, as he gets aroused whenever I’m around.

I can tell how desperate he is for me but he won’t give in.

I really want him. I think we’d be good together.

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He texts me, is flirty and sometimes sends me explicit photographs. How faithful is that?

MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: Not very, in my view. But maybe he thinks he counts as faithful as long as he doesn’t actually have full s3x.

But why even get into thinking about where he draws the line?

You said yourself he is not the sort of person you would normally find attractive.

My neighbour says we can't go all the way in bed because he's religious

Is it more about you enjoying the thrill of the chase because he seems a bit innocent and you have something to prove to yourself?

You can’t be chasing what you don’t really fancy. It will end in tears.

I doubt you would be good together if he is committed to a faith that is very different from your views.

Stop all the flirting and swapping photos. Tell this guy to be properly faithful to his fiancée while you look elsewhere for a partner who will give you 100 per cent.

Apart from other issues, oral s3x risks transmitting sexual infections.

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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