I caught my wife having s£x with another guy on my secret surveillance camera

I COULDN’T believe my eyes when I saw footage on one of our surveillance cameras of my wife having s3x with another guy in our bed.

I am 31 and she is 29. We have been together for six years and have a two-year-old daughter.

I rigged up the cameras after several burglaries in our area. I didn’t tell my wife because I thought it might freak her out.

I just said I had installed motion sensors connected to our house alarm which would only be on after we had gone to bed.

There was nothing to see the first few days but on the fourth day, when our daughter was at my mother-in-law’s, this guy around my age shows up on the doorstep.

My wife lets him in and they have a passionate kiss.

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They are clearly very familiar with one another. They have a chat in the kitchen then the camera on the landing picks them up as they go upstairs.

I’d assumed the pressure of looking after a young child had made my wife less keen on sex
I’d assumed the pressure of looking after a young child had made my wife less keen on s3xCredit: Getty – Contributor

There is not a camera in the bedroom but the landing one picks up a reflection from the mirror in our bedroom and you see them writhing in our bed.

It turns my stomach. I would not have suspected a thing had I not seen the footage. Our relationship seemed good.

S3x had been less frequent lately but hadn’t stopped entirely.

I’d just assumed it was the pressure of work and looking after a young child that had made my wife less keen on s3x.

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To make matters worse, she has told me she is pregnant — and now I’m worried whether it is mine, or not.

I don’t want to break up our family but how can I live with this?
I don’t want to break up our family but how can I live with this?Credit: Getty Images – Getty

I have been trying to hide my discovery from her, as I don’t have the heart, or a plan, to ­confront her.

Since I learned of her cheating I haven’t had s3x with her.

She senses something is different and has asked me what’s wrong.

I said I need time to process my feelings. I just have no idea how to handle this.

I don’t want to break up our family but how can I live with this?

MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: There’s no way to make this OK without confronting your wife.

I do wonder if deep down you had an inkling and that played a part in you installing the cameras.

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Anyway, now you know, so tell her you two need a serious talk when your little girl is safely out of the way.

Stay calm and say what you saw. It will throw up so many questions. Is her affair serious or just a fling? How long has it been lasting and what led her into cheating? You need to talk about it all maturely.

If she wants to stay with you, can she reassure you it’s your baby on the way? If not, could you cope with possibly raising another man’s child?

There is no excuse for your wife cheating but it would help you mend your marriage, if that’s what you want, to take some responsibility for the state of your relationship.

If this turns out to end your marriage, try to put your daughter’s need for two loving parents at the centre of your arrangements.

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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