HAVING forgiven my husband once for flirting with women he met online, I’ve discovered he’s doing it again.
We are both in our mid-40s and have been married for 20 years. We have a great s3x life and I thought everything was fine.
My husband suddenly seemed a bit distant around six months ago and the great s3x stopped.
I knew something was wrong and I was so hurt when I found out he’d been messaging women and exchanging s3xy photos.
He said sorry and that it had been a mistake.
But this time he’s not sorry and says that it’s all my fault.
He says I’m jealous and I don’t understand his need to be friends with other women. I don’t think my marriage can survive this.
MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: It was reasonable to give your husband another chance but sadly he hasn’t proved worthy of your trust.
Maybe he doesn’t see online behaviour as cheating but ask him how he would feel if you were flirting and exchanging s3xy photos with other men.
He is selfish and inconsiderate. And the fact that he doesn’t see anything wrong with his actions means he is prepared for the worse. So don’t be quick to ask for divorce, he may oblige you without a second thought and blame you for ending your marriage with him.
Be firm that you won’t be bullied and let him know you will revenge his actions by sending your nudes to other men too.
In case he thinks you’re joking, try some fake moves in his presence and see what his reactions will be.