My Side-Cock is threatening to tell my husband about our affair unless I pay up

MY lover keeps demanding money and threatens he’ll tell my husband I’ve been cheating if I don’t pay up. I’m terrified.

I’m 45 and my husband is 48. He has a high-powered job and has always been away a lot for his work.

We have a son who’s 20 and I had a big case of empty-nest syndrome when he went off to university last year. I felt my husband was taking me for granted.

I was feeling down when a friend invited me to her 40th birthday party at a hotel — this was a year ago now. My husband was in Japan at the time so I went alone.

A man got talking to me who said he was 37, married and in the events business. His wife wasn’t there because she was home with a new baby.

I could see from the way he looked at me that he liked what he saw. We chatted and later he asked whether he could walk me home.

But then his business fell through and he kept asking for money
But then his business fell through and he kept asking for moneyCredit: Getty

He saw me through the door then said: “I know I’m pushing my luck, but would you mind if I kissed you?” I found myself saying, “Yes. I’d like that.”

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He ended up in my room, put his hands around my back and pulled my dress up over my head. I fell into his arms and we had s3x. I know it was wrong.

That was the start of what’s been a passionate affair. I thought I was falling in love but lockdown arrived and, of course, his business fell through the floor.

His car broke down and he asked me to lend him some money for a new one. He promised to pay it back so I lent him £10,000.

Now he owes me £25,000 and is demanding more, or he says he'll tell my husband about our affair
Now he owes me £25,000 and is demanding more, or he says he’ll tell my husband about our affairCredit: Alamy

He’s kept asking for more money for different reasons to do with his business and home life — and now he owes me £25,000.

My husband is going to wonder where the money’s gone out of a couple of our joint accounts so I tried to refuse the last demand for £5,000.

My lover then said: “I’m sure you don’t want your husband to know about our affair.”

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I have dug myself a deep hole and I don’t know how to get out.

MARRIAGE-CHRONICLES.COM: He is blackmailing you and breaking the law. Don’t give him a penny more. He’s married so he has as much to lose as you if your affair is revealed.

I’m afraid you probably won’t see your money again but tell him this relationship is over.

Be clear that if he keeps threatening you, you will report him to the police.

If your husband is likely to discover the money is missing, best tell him now.

Maybe you can claim you were taken in by scammers but the truth will be safer than getting caught up in a web of lies.

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Don’t ever allow your emotions to overwhelm you again. Once beaten twice shy. What you thought will end in happiness has now become your nightmare, this and more is what cheating does to many relationships.

In any event tell him you both need to put fresh energy in your relationship. Good luck!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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