Marriage is life-changing and can be destructive if it is embarked on with the wrong person. You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone you’ll be happy spending time with every day of your life, forever. Here are 10 signs that the woman in your life will make a good wife.
1. She’s Nurturing
Marriage and home making is for women. The men are mainly figure heads who are mostly not around to ensure everything goes well at home. A woman who will make a good wife has to be caring and nurturing. She’s going to be majorly responsible for the well-being of you and your children. She should be kind and compassionate, willing to take care of others without grumbling.
2. She’s Dependable
A great wife should be someone you can trust and rely on. She should be someone who will support her man no matter what, someone you know you can count on, come rain, come shine. She is not a fair-weather partner whose loyalty dwindles whenever times are rough financially and otherwise.
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3. She’s Respectful
Disrespect is one of the major causes of marital dysfunction. The woman you decide to marry should respect you no matter what. She should respect your family and your friends, even if she doesn’t like them. She should be a respectful person all round.
4. She’s Humble
A proud woman will encourage grudges and nothing destroys relationships faster than malice. The ideal wife should be able to apologize even when she isn’t in the wrong.
However, most young women of our days resort to emotional blackmail when they are wrong and shouldn’t waste time in apologizing. Any woman in this sphere will make a bad wife.
5. She’s emotionally stable
The woman you decide to marry should be stable emotionally and otherwise. An emotionally unstable woman can’t handle the pressures of marriage. She should be mature and know how to handle situations without constantly losing her cool.
You don’t want to marry a woman who will break down in tears over every little challenge. Neither does any man needs a weak woman who is always flaring up at every slightest provocation within and without the family space.
6. She loves children
The ideal wife should love children. She should like to have them around her and willing to play with them always. This is a sign that she’ll be capable of taking care of the family you build together.
It is very important to state here that the wife trains while the father blesses the child. Women are wired for carrying and raising kids…..this is a special gift from God.
7. She can cook
She doesn’t have to be a chef but a great wife should be able to feed her family with good and healthy meals. It is said that “The way to a man’s heart is good food”. This is true to the letters. So it is expedient for every unmarried woman to acquire good culinary expertise.
8. You have a lot in common
It can be the same kind of music or the same hobbies or even just a love of books. If there are things you both like to do, that’s a good sign you are entering a marriage of happiness and longevity.
9. She knows how to communicate
She knows how to communicate her opinions. There is nothing more important in a relationship than communication, and if you are considering making it official by marrying her, you have to feel comfortable talking with her about anything and everything.
The more you communicate with your woman, the less likely the two of you will get into arguments because you both will be able to talk about your problems instead of holding them in.
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10. You can laugh together
Mutual laughter is an essential component of a strong and healthy marriage. Romance is much better if you can see humour in the little things and can have a good laugh together.
Above all, you must remember that there’s no such thing as a perfect person so there can’t be a perfect wife.
However, this article is rather emphasizing the eminence of a good woman rather than a perfect woman. Don’t look for a perfect woman but a good woman who will make marriage and life worthwhile for you in a world full of various kinds of crises everywhere.