“I had a quarrel with my partner because he went to receive his female friend at the airport. The anger came because I didn’t expect him to do what he never wanted me to do.
He pleaded and tried to explain things but my ears were deaf and anger was high.
On the third day after this issue, he called to check up on me in the morning and still asked for my forgiveness. So later that afternoon, I felt like am doing the most so I should call him and tell him I have forgiven him.
I called and I had the shock of my life,his brother picked up and said he has lost his memory due to a severe fall in the bathroom. I told him I wanted to speak to him, and when I called his name, all he was saying was ”tell her am sorry,she is angry at me”and I asked who?
All he could say was “my head is aching. Pls tell her”.
I then asked my friend to call his line and he was saying the same thing. I rushed to the hospital they took him and after waiting for hours, he was back to his right senses, as the doctor said it was a temporal lost of memory.
I knelt before him in the hospital and started crying as I told him I forgive him. He then gave me a tight hug for over 5mins and since then, I get angry small and let things go.”
Relationship and Marriage are for a balanced adult because they come with good and bad moments like life itself. So, it is advisable to attain adulthood before venturing into dating.
Whilst you are yet considering dating, be ready to forgive and tolerate your partner. You will also need to learn how to be patient with people in case you lack that virtue.
These and many other personality issues should be balanced before you get entangled with someone from a different background. Your balanced character will be revealed through your actions and thinking pattern. How well you prove yourself to be mature enough will determine how well your relationship will be.
Maybe it was a trick pulled on you by your man and his brother to get you to forgive him and I’m pleased it worked. That you also learnt a lesson and are making effort to be a changed woman is an added advantage to both of you. Because anger can destroy and can kill both the angry and the angered. It also has its advantage if well managed and utilized.
However, anger has influenced many negatively than positively. So, there is a strong need to be watchful when dealing with other people from same or different backgrounds.
Let love grow stronger and strengthen your communication with each other.