My name is Juliana , 23yrs in 400 level. I want to share what I have been trying to overcome on my own but I can’t. I have tried many ways to take my brother out of my head but I can’t.
It all started when his girlfriend, who’s my best friend started telling me how sweet my brother is in bed.
Each time we talk about relationships or just gisting she likes talking about how good he is in bed more than talking about any other issues.
As time went on I started developing a sexual feeling for my brother to the extent that I started peeping at him each time he is in the bathroom taking his bath. I will go to his room and pretend like I want to collect something, then I will move closer to the bathroom door and start peeping at his naked body.
One day I was shocked when I finally saw his huge Gandoga since then I can’t control myself, I always imagine myself on top of him.
No other man appeals to me, each time I see any guy approach me I always imagine their thing to be as huge as my brother’s own. Please I need your Advice on what to do before I loose my mind.
Marriage Chronicles: You can’t have your brother. It is a no go area so, don’t think about it and don’t imagine it.
It’s not acceptable by society, tradition and religion. It is a spiritual offense and can bring so much issues in the future.
Don’t remember to forget the consequences of committing this abominable act with your brother.
You’re not going to destroy the good relationship you have with your brother and best friend because of 5mins pleasure. You also have your parent to face if they eventually get to know.
Also remember the shame and disgrace it will bring to you if your friend or someone finds out. You don’t want to go through all that for just few minutes pleasure.
You may be disappointed after tasting the forbidden fruit. Because Sexual Intercourse is affiliated with how we feel about our partners most times. Your brother may never share the same feeling he has for your girlfriend with you. So, you have to jettison the fantasy you’re creating in your head now.
Since you’re moved by what you hear, like every other woman, you have to discontinue having a conversation with your girlfriend concerning your brother’s sexual prowess. Also keep a bit of distance from your friend and brother until you get over this urge.
Finally occupy yourself with other issues that pertain to your future, keep healthy relationship between other boys and girls and be prayerful.
You need to talk to a man of God about the situation and also I will recommend a psychologist to you who can help you thru. Good Luck!