During our courtship period, we got carried away once and had s!x. From then, we made a conscious effort not to have s!x again till we got married.
I’m very interested in s!x and I try as much as I can to always look good, both in and out of the bedroom. Even with my busy work schedules, I still try to keep the home clean, his clothes spotless, get him home cooked food , in fact I do not know what a married woman needs to do for her husband that am not doing.
My problem is my husband can return from work around 6pm, and go sit outside till about 10pm before he comes back home. He waits till I have retired to bed and slept off before he joins me in bed. He can go more than 2 weeks before having s!x, which I am not in support of, because I believe this is the time I must enjoy my husband.
As I type this message, he has traveled out of town to visit his family and has stayed for a month. I don’t know what else to say to him. I need his attention, am a nice girl with all the front and back curves, thus I receive a lot of attention from other men, am afraid that I may end up cheating with one of these men if things do not change soon cos am really suffering. Am unable to speak to anyone about my problems cos it might tarnish his image. Yet am dying in silence…
Marriage Chronicles: Marriage is sweet, marriage is awesome, marriage is good and marriage was ordained by God so, everyone of good age should desire marriage. However, marriage is not without issues of life.
Some of the issues of marriage can be so overwhelming that if care is not taken, one may wish they were never married.
Regrets are the foundation of broken marriages. When all the awesome moments are gone, regrets are inevitable.
Sometimes pressure from work, business and family can affect the good narratives of your marriage. This may not be the end of everything but a pointer to the fact that both partners have to consciously work harder to ensuring that things come to normal as soon as possible.
The strings of communication should be tightened by both couple. Until there is proper verbal communication, solution may be elusive.
Cheating is not an option neither is Divorce. Those are leeway for feeble minds. Patience and detailed communication about how things changed and how to fix them is the ideal way forward.. Good Luck!