The Effect Of Masturbation On Marriage/Relationship

Those days that yam (phone) was reigning, my dad didn’t know how to Bluetooth videos, music, photos etc from other phones to his so I was the one helping him. He can ask me to Bluetooth so many pornography films from another phone to his. This continued for a long time so I was exposed to the porn movie. I could watch it when he was asleep but I didn’t know anything about #masturbation.

Ff, I traveled to spend some holidays in the Ketu North of Volta. The place was full of mountains.
One day, while on the mountain top, I started feeling the urge to touch my manhood. I was 13yrs by then. I used my saliva to start rubbing my manhood and at the same time looking around to see if any one was watching. I wasn’t able to cum because of my guilty conscience.

After the incident at the mountain top. I didn’t get any chance to do what I did. After two weeks over there I came back to Accra, that was in 2012.
I was in Junior High School (JHS1) one by then. I started the real masturbation in the bathroom, bedroom. I could do it in front of you and you wouldn’t notice. I was masturbating with only people who dress sexy and I had seen earlier, all in my mind.

I spent all my three years in Senior High School (SHS) masturbating..
I was a brilliant student too, I did pure science.
But I realised, I was going down academically.

The worst happened in the university, due to the free WiFi. I could download porn till my storage was full. I had porn on my phone, laptop and tablet. I was a chronic “Masturbater”.
There is so much I to say but I Can’t say all

I haven’t disclosed it to anybody if not today..
Until I read a post talking about mastubation and it’s effect. Two days ago, I told myself I have to stop. I deleted all the porn on my laptop, phone and tablet. I even deleted sexy female pictures, whether a family, friend or even a stranger, I deleted it all.

Yesterday night, the demon of masturbation attacked me..I woke up at 1:00am(time that I usually masturbate). The urge to do it was so strong, nobody has any idea except me..
But guess what, I didn’t do it….I passed my day one of not masturbating. I know tonight too the demon (the urge to do it) will visit and I pray I overcome my day two and all days to come.

N:B Masturbation has destroyed me that, I can’t even approach a lady than to talk of proposing to her.
Due to that, I am single and there is no one to even talk to about it…

Marriage Chronicles: My Dear, when habits are formed overtime, they could become very difficult to be jettisoned overnight.

However, whatever the human mind is conditioned to achieve, it does achieve….with decision and commitment. So your quest to quit masturbation is very achievable with self-discipline.

All you need to do is to constantly remind yourself of the importance of your quest. Let it get into your subconscious mind where you can readily act without having to condition yourself anymore. This may not be automatically achieved but with time you will get there.

Pick up few activities that can help you whenever the urge to masturbate comes. Some of such activities may include; reading off-beats materials that have no trace of romance, playing gospel songs or music that are not profane, exercising, praying, singing and dancing.

Some habits can also be enforced by spiritual elements. You may not know this, but the truth of the matter is that we live in a spiritual world as well. Certain things we do or encounter have spiritual linkages. This habit may have been planted in your family thru witchcraft manipulation to distort the destiny of men, hence your dad was a victim and now you’ve inherited it too.

So while you do the natural, also try to do the spiritual by praying for deliverance and seeking spiritual help if your faith is weak. It’s not easy but you will win. Good Luck!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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