Episode 1: The Effect Of Porn On Marriage/Relationship

Growing up as a boy I became exposed to porn in primary school, just like most guys would admit. Now I’ve realised that depending on the type(s) of porn you watch and who your favourite actor(s) or actresses are, it kind of informs you about how a woman should be satisfied.

You would also get the inclination to experiment a lot of all those s!x positions we see the PERFORMERS do. Your beautiful audience should kindly take note of the word PERFORMERS

Now I started having s!x from Junior High School, right to Tertiary and even beyond.
This is what my conclusion is, most of the things we see in porn are ACTED and/or PERFORMED. There’s a reason why they term it “Adult Entertainment Video”. Entertainers, for that matter actors and actresses are hired, paid AND DIRECTED to perform some of those weird positions we see in different scenes.
Why am I saying weird?

Of all the women I’ve banged in my life, (and I counted about 50 before marriage) only about 5 could do some of those weird positions. I’m not talking about the normal doggy, missionary or spoon, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl . Per my experience those are basic positions that almost every woman could give you. I’m talking about the wheelbarrow and standing 69 and those difficult variations of different s!x positions.

By watching porn you would expect these from your spouse or lover and you end up disappointed. And rightly so. For goodness sake your spouse or lover is not a porn star.
If you even watch hard-core porn too much as a guy it only gives you “adwen fi” (bad mind) towards women. And mind you some of those positions are demeaning.

How many of us have not read or watched interviews from past porn stars who have corroborated what I’m saying, especially the female stars. There are situations where they’re so uncomfortable and gasping for breath but the directors don’t care, they just urge the male actor to keep on banging. Some were forced to have anal s!x on set without prior agreement. In my experience I’ve only met few ladies who like kinky stuff, like putting your finger in their anus whiles banging them doggy style.

It took me time to learn all these. Your partner is a human being, not a porn actor or actress. Learn what satisfies them and unlearn all the things you’ve seen in porn..

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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