I have a wonderful woman in my life. We’ve been married for five years now and everything is good with us. Just looking at her walking around the house doing what she does makes my heart glad all the time. I count myself a very lucky man to have such a woman in my life.
I love her but the issue with me is how to show her that I love her. I watch movies and see the little things men do to show their women that they appreciate them and wish I could do same for my wife but I’m not able to. There is this ambition.
On the other hand, she’s so open about how she feels about things. She shows her emotions very easily and pours lots of love into the things she does. Showing sentiments and reassuring me of her love for me come very easily with her but not me.
I wish I could say and do more to prove to her that she means everything in this world to me but I’m shy to let it out. Maybe it’s from the way I was brought up but I want to change things and bring more love into our relationship.
I want to be able to tell her often that I love her. I want to be able to walk with her with my hand around her waist. I want to wake her up at dawn and tell her how I missed her while I was sleeping.
How do I overcome this shyness and inhibition so I can let my feelings show? I’m scared she might be thinking I don’t love her enough. Please help!
Marriage Chronicles: Women are smarter than you can think sometimes. For all you care, she already knows you love her so much…even without saying it.
However, women also like to hear a lot, that’s why they talk a lot. So you definitely will have to say how you feel towards her once in a while, if not every time.
So you will have to start with none verbal communications. Start texting “I love you” while at work to her, when she hasn’t done anything to warrant that. Kiss her every night before you sleep and first thing when you wake up. Buy her gifts with her name etched on it. Take her out for dinner, cook with her and I believe the shyness will go.
To effectively carry out the above suggestions, you need to make more money. Money gives boldness. And money helps to spice up romance and love. When you have enough money to buy your choice, you won’t have to talk too much.
Take note; rich men express their love with actions while poor men do same with words. People are never tired of many kind gestures but people can get tired of many words.
So let your actions speak louder than your words… if you don’t want to lose her or her respect someday. Good Luck!