I met this nurse, who had just completed sch somewhere in 2017, through a mate & we started dating. About 3 months into the relationship, her mum started asking her to bring me home 2 greet her after she has told her about me (my profession, tribe & stuff).
This woman welcomed me warmly, prepared for me a delicious meal. I subsequently visited her( the girl) frequently, where in some cases the mother insisted I sleep over. They stayed at Tema. One evening I called this girl & from the background I could realize she wasn’t home but she lied about being home. I called the mum only for her 2 also lie to me that the girl was asleep @ home & just gone out 2 urinate.
Upon a little pressure this girl admitted she was out for a birthday party with friends. Ff, she was posted to do her rotation in the Eastern Region where she comes from. I had to rent a room for her & furnish it with one or two stuffs she would need immediately. I begun to lose trust in her inconsistencies when she moved there.
I would sometimes visit her & the looks her co-tenants would give me could tell something. I would take her phone to read messages that shows guys have been coming 2 spend nights with her, though she always denied & claimed they were her relatives.
She eventually met a guy (pharmacist) in her hospital who she claimed was just a friend to her when I suspected them. Sir, not knowing this girl had already introduced the guy to her mum as her boyfriend whilst we were still dating & had no serious issues. I was still calling her mum & vice versa all this while.
I once told her mum that I see her daughter to be cheating on me. This woman by all standards proved the innocence of her daughter. She visited me one evening & I took her phone to read her conversations with a guy only to find out the guy had already chopped her like twice. I couldn’t sleep that night ( I could imaging how she would be moaning during those times & her usual screaming words).
I confronted her again but she denied totally since I didn’t show her the evidence. I told the mum & even went further to mention the guy’s name but this woman told me she didn’t know of any guy apart from me. Meanwhile this woman had already traveled to the hometown just to meet the guy personally ( she liked the guy by virtue of same ethnic background). I told the girl I would do my findings & will expose her if my suspicions are truly right since she dares me.
The next morning, I secretly took the guy’s number & called him in her presence, asked him what was going on between them ( this girl was shouting & yelling telling the guy not to mind me). The guy confirmed they had been dating for more than 2 months.
To cut it short, the guy broke up with her & I also did. Now her mum called me, insulting me & all that . Telling me I hadn’t married her daughter & had no right to break her friendship with the guy by calling him. Sir, as am typing now, the lady had given birth without any man taking responsibility. NB: the mother has 4 kids with 3 different fathers.
Some parents are really behind the infidelity behaviors of their children these days.
Marriage Chronicles: Every Family has a history, it could be good or bad. From experience and little knowledge of spiritual things, history mostly repeats themselves if/when people are not careful.
Nothing is new. What has been will be again….Ecc 1:9, Ecc 3:15. As a young lady or man, you must pay keen attention to what is happening around your bloodline, especially with your parents.
Your woman is not smart enough to know that what she is doing now will end her up like her a mom. And her time may be worst than her mom’s. She is sure on her way to disaster in the nearest future.
Thank God you found out who and what she is on time, otherwise you’d have been more broken than this.
Move on with your life and pray for her deliverance as a friend. You may also let her know where she is heading to. And next time to call or text any man whom you suspect, it is not mature and wise, unless she is your wife. Good Luck!