Sexual Purity Can Give You a Life No Man Can Give You (II)

Temilolu Okeowo

Dear ma,

I’m not a female but your column caught my attention a few weeks ago and I Google-searched your previous articles and learnt so much. Thanks so much for being a blessing to the world especially the younger ones. God bless you ma!


Dear Aunty Temilolu,

Your posts are always inspiring, educating, motivating and above all godly. I have been reading Girls Club in Saturday PUNCH and was enthralled going through your timeline on Facebook. You’ve been a blessing to me since I stumbled on your articles and I must say your Facebook posts made me enjoy the lockdown. It’s so heartwarming to find someone in the world who shares a like mind with me. I love you ma’am. May God bless you real good ma. I’ve always secretly admired your work in the newspapers and experiencing you and your activities on Facebook is altogether mind-blowing. I keep asking myself what drives you to write so passionately on the need for girls to preserve their virginity till marriage and develop themselves spiritually and otherwise. I pray I meet you in person soonest. God bless you ma!

Ruby Okonkwo

Dear Ma,

I love reading your articles but I have my doubt about this episode titled, “Sexual purity gives you power to have all you could ever wish for!” There are many poor virgin girls out there. Does it mean they can’t use their power well?

Zipporah, 22, Lagos

My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian daughters,

I published the above letter two weeks ago and would give you an insight into how you can make the most of your sexual purity and have what no man can give you.

Our body- the temple of the Holy Spirit: You must have read in the Bible at some point in time that our bodies are referred to as the temple of the Holy Spirit. 1 Cor.6:19 Who or what is the Holy Spirit? In summary the Holy Spirit is the presence of God in our lives without which we can achieve very little. You may remind me that there are many successful people out there who enjoy flaunting their immoral lifestyle in our faces but I would also jump to ask- DO YOU KNOW THE TYPE OF STAR YOU CARRY AND WHAT IT WOULD ENTAIL TO MANIFEST? Check out Mary the mother of Jesus, her purity effortlessly made her the most famous woman in creation and till eternity because she was found worthy of bringing our Lord Jesus Christ into the world! Would biblical Esther have become queen in a foreign land if she wasn’t a virgin? Did you even know that a lot of girls/ladies have their life’s settings scattered when they’re deflowered outside marriage? THIS IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER! Now which power do you really have to ensure God’s wondrous plans for you manifest? Your make-up, pretty dresses or endless surfing on the Internet and “Facebooking?” NO! The same Bible says: “So he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel, Chioma, Bidemi, Aisha: Not by might nor by power, but by my spirit, says the Lord Almighty.” Zech.4:6

I have emphasised in this column over and over again how a lot of destinies are polluted and delayed by transference of spirits and demons through sexual intercourse and how ungodly sex opens up your life to demonic invasion! The point is- to start with- you can’t be kissing God and hugging the devil and expect that you will lead a life of your dreams. Even if you sell your soul to the stupid, bad devil, it will always control your life and frustrate it.

May I announce to you- if you are still defiling your body- God’s holy temple, you’re cheating yourself, missing a lot! A clean vessel is a power-generator- the power house of God! while a dirty vessel is the devil’s playground! Did you even know that an imagination incubated in the Holy Spirit is a time-bomb of miracles waiting to explode? Hmm…I’m afraid 85 per cent of girls in the world today don’t know the power of God in them, the gold mines they are and what they could make out of it! Before we meet again, may God open your eyes to reveal the wonder in you so you can start pursuing your destiny instead of boys/men.

To be continued.

Are you still engaging in pre-marital sex? Each act devalues you! Your wonders are waiting to start. God is waiting for you to become a secondary virgin!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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