ADVISE: The Pain Of Marrying A Chronic Cheater

“I’m a nurse by profession, I married my hubby 7yrs ago. I so much love and cherish him. He married me a virgin after I dropped pen from school of nursing. We got married since then, things were hard.

Thank God for my qualification cos have been the one taking care of all our family need from A to Z. If you see my hubby you wont even believe he can hot a fly. He looks so gentle, cool and soft spoken.

I have started up biz for him more than 6 times but he didn’t make anything out of it. I never knew this man was sleeping around although sometimes ago I suspected he was doing something fishy but I decide to let go and didn’t dig deep.

This lockdown I spent 250k to stock the house and he didn’t contribute anything. I notice a particular number was calling I decide to find out, he said he had no biz with the person. But it happened to be a lady he wanted to take to hotel but the lady was with his son that very day, so they were planning to have another appointment before I noticed. I cried my eyes out.

I went to our Rev father and told him everything. He asked me to forgive and forget but I was still fighting hard to let go. A revelation came and they told me that my husband make love to a spirit woman. That the woman is the causes of what we are going thru. They ask him to write names of those he slept with before and after marriage so that they will use their names to pray…. as they don’t know the name of the particular person. My hubby wrote 48 names, 10 after marriage.

I have been crying since cos I thought I knew him well. The most painful part of it, I never slept with any man since am married to him. I have lost so many job opportunities because the MDs want sex. I applied for job in military hospital, the general in charge said he won’t give me employment except I slept with him. I refused.

When my husband’s mother died, he had nothing on him, I gave him 100k to travel with because I just gave birth so I didn’t travel with them. He has been begging, crying for me to forgive him but I can’t.

How do I handle this? my heart is bleeding…. he even confessed to me that he use to sleep with his mother in the dream and he masturbate too and am always their for him. Please advise me before I end my life…. is too much for me.

Marriage Chronicles: The pains of being cheated on by the one you love and care for can be like likened to that of losing a dear one.

You have every right to be mad, disappointed and broken by the excesses of your hubby’s promiscuity. And I must commend you for having been faithful and enduring over the years. Not many women can stay that long with a cheating broke man.

However, I want you to know that no marriage is without issues. So your case is not peculiar to you alone. Please forgive your husband, both of you should talk about everything and let him know you are giving him the last chance.

If he is under a spiritual influence, seek spiritual help together and work on your marriage. Good Luck!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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