I’m in a serious problem. I was in senior high school 1 when a lady who was my senior proposed to me and through the advice of my friends I accepted her proposal. We started meeting continuously at midnight, where we usually had sex .
From 2011 to 2013 we had sex more than 25 times. She completed SHS in 2013 and I didn’t hear from her again till last Friday when my brother brought the lady he is about to marry.
It’s this same lady I was having sex with way back in shs oooo. When I saw her I behaved as if I don’t know her so just greeted her and went away.
I was in my room when she came to me saying she hasn’t forgotten my dick. Can you imagine hearing this from a lady preparing to get married to my blood brother?
I told her what happened was a mistake so she should delete it from her mind. This lady started crying I used her for nothing. And that even after she gets married to my brother, she will still have sex with me.
Am afraid to tell my parents, so I need help from you.
Marriage Chronicles: If she had kept silent, I’d have advised that you don’t say anything to the family. As it is now, you’ll have to tell your brother but you’d better have evidence of her current behavior because no one is more deaf than a person in love. Cunning as she is, she might even convince him that you’re rather coming on to her.
Also after she completed SHS, she might have dated some other guys, if she comes to you and you reject her, you wouldn’t know which of her guys she will turn to after marriage.
So, if you really love your brother spell out the truth to him in front of your parents to prevent future problem and shame and allow him to make his decision.
Seriously you are sitting on an explosive bomb, it just need time to explode to scatter your family….be that person to safeguard your family love and unity. Good Luck!