Advise Me: I Asked My Sister To Test My Boyfriend And Now They Are Getting Married’- Woman Cries

A sad and emotional woman , only Known as Ngozi Uju has shared a story of how her biological sister snatched her boyfriend.

We can’t judge her for her actions but we believe love goes where it is meant to be. The sad, Nigerian woman does not know what to do and wants our help.

Read her narration below:

“What is this world turning into? So somebody can not trust her blood sister again? I only asked my sister to test my fiance and now they want to get married.

I met Frank 3 years ago and we have been dating. Everything was moving well. I know every member of his family and he knows mine too.

What happened recently

Last month he asked to move our relationship to the next level, he proposed to me and I accepted. He and his family came for the introduction and my parents accepted them. He fixed our traditional marriage and everything was going according to plan.

7 days to our traditional marriage, I didn’t know what came over me. I told my younger sister to go to his house, cook food for him and try to seduce him. I was trying to see if Frank is a womanizer or if he would cheat on me. I trust him but I wanted to be sure. I warned my sister never to have sex with him and she said “God forbid, I won’t sleep with your husband”.

Latter part

After she came back, I noticed that Frank stopped picking my calls, he blocked my number. I went to his house he told me he wasn’t going to marry me again that it’s my sister he wants to marry now.

I don’t know what my sister did to him. The worst part is that my sister agreed to marry him. Every member of our family is warning her not to but she is insisting. My father said he would disown her if she marries him.

It’s not as if I can’t cook. I cook more than everyone in my house. I am thinking about arresting or killing my sister. I am so confused. Did she give him love portion or what? Please I need advice.”

Marriage Chronicles: In life, we are mostly hurt by those we love and trust, and most times they are those we have helped before. Instead of blaming yourself or killing your sister over the ugly incidence, be thankful to God that you didn’t end up marrying such a man.

He never really loved you, else he won’t have chosen your sister or another woman over you. You didn’t make mistake, God only used the situation to reveal whom your man and your sister truly are. Trust me, you would have regretted marrying him if this didn’t happen now. So be thankful. Try your best to forgive your sister, learn your lesson and be wiser next time. Don’t give your sister or anyone the chance to hurt you again……..though this can be inevitable sometimes.

The future has more to offer you than what you can see now, God surely has a better man and plan for you…..Just be thankful to God for saving you from marital doom. Good Luck!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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