A Nigerian man has revealed why he didn’t marry his ex-girlfriend after meeting her family.
According to the man, so many ladies are unmarried because of their upbringing. He stated that his decision not to marry the lady who works in one of the leading banks in the country, centered on how her father was treated.
@stazingar further alleged that the lady’s mother who insisted on taking the place of her father, was more interested in his own bank account and how he will assist the family with their building project.
“Girls grow up to treat their husbands the same way their mothers treated their fathers. That’s was why I didn’t marry my ex in 2012. Smart girl. Works with one of the leading banks in Nigeria. Slim-thick, chocolate, tall and strong muscular legs, Just how I like it”
The young dad of a cute little son said “We were destined for the alter until I decided to see her parents. We drove to her parent’s house in the villa. Coming into the compound I noticed a semi-paralyzed man at the corner of the house with sadness all over him. No one paid attention to him and his clothes were dirty.
“I thought he was a madman or something but was distracted by my girl’s mum and siblings circling around me with salutations. We got into the house and as a solid Igbo guy, I brought one carton of omega schnapps for the father like tradition demands.
“On asking for the father to present the drink, I was told dismissively that he was the man outside and the mum wanted to accept the drink on his behalf. I was shocked! What?? I asked my babe and she said it was a long story. I ignored her and went to the man.
“Introduced myself and gave him my present. When the man told me his story, I wept. Brethren, pray that you marry a good wife. To cut long story short, I confronted the woman and she was more interested in my bank account and how I will assist with their building project.
“Suddenly some of my babe’s aggressive behaviors began to make sense. Then we grew apart cos I refused to do whatever the mother says. Ladies, don’t let your toxic mum lead you astray. So many ladies are unmarried because of their upbringing!
It’s highly recommendable for parents to lead a good life for their kids, because the kids see them as their first role models. Most of the ill-mannered adults out there in the society are a facsimile of a failed and faulty family upbringing.