Please Advise Me: My First Boyfriend Dumped Me For Another Lady…Now He Wants Me Back After a Year.

Hi sir, I’m Carol, in 2011 I dated a man who I loved so much. In fact, he was the first man in my life. In 2013 he started behaving in a funny way and later he wrote a message to me opting that we part ways. I felt that the world was not fair to me. I cried and cried day and night and after some time I healed and started my life again. As for the guy he went ahead and married. After a year, he realize that the marriage was not working.

Early this year he called me and said he wanted a reunion…..knowing that I have a son who is actually not his. He is so apologetic and blaming the devil for parting us. He is now cooperative and the way he is taking care of my son is just amazing. Should I stay with the man? He wants to marry me.

Marriage Chronicles: Sometimes, people will only see the importance of what they have after they have tried other options. The one year your boyfriend was away from you opened his eyes to see that you are far more worth than the thousand out there he thought was better than you.

I also want you to know that destiny has a vital role to play in the course of our life. I’m sure destiny has made it possible for you to be single while he was away in marriage with another woman. I’m also sure you had your own experience with other men, especially the father of your son during this one year. So both of you are now wiser, more mature and better fit for the journey of marriage. So kindly forgive him and accept him again as your first love.

However, you must have a proper discussion and agreement concerning your son. If he dumped you before for no reason, he can dump you again after marriage….and that may just be too much for you to handle with a son. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. So before you accept his marriage proposal, take some time to study him because he is no more the young man you once dated. Good Luck!

About Wealth Femi

I am Wealth O. A, B.Sc (Chemistry), Delta State University, Nigeria, Diploma (Basic Marine certs), Regional Maritime University, Ghana. Married with kids. Marriage and Relationship Counselor, writer and entrepreneur.

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