“Good evening sir, please help me post & hide my ID. I’m legally & happily married but I have a very big problem in my home. I don’t wash my dishes anytime I use them, I will rather gather them even up to two weeks. Sometimes worms start coming out of them before going to wash & I feel really embarrassed by this. I have tried to change but is not working at all anytime I finish using it instead of me to wash I will postpone it. Pls I don’t know if anyone can advice me on what to do about it. I’m so tired of myself pls help me I really want to change pls.”
Marriage Chronicles: The first approach to solving problems is by identifying the problem. You have done well by knowing the behaviour is a problem. Character or Attitudes are mostly expressed unconsciously, but Discipline is a conscious effort geared towards achieving a targeted goal. You have to constantly discipline yourself by reminding yourself that you’re now an adult and should be responsible for your daily life.
Don’t take advantage of those around you by leaving every little thing for them to do for you, it doesn’t make you a big girl or big boy, it only makes you irresponsible. It won’t take more than 1 minute to wash a spoon and plate. Don’t allow laxity and laziness to destroy your entire great personality. Procrastination is the fertilizer that helps difficulties to grow. Start by washing the spoons immediately you use them, even if you have a maid you are paying to do it, and soon it will be part of you. There is better satisfaction in doing things by yourself and for yourself….cause nobody can be like you. Good Luck!