Good afternoon Sir, please come to my aid cause am losing my mind, my husband step mother, cause he’s biological mother is late, came for a program before this lockdown so she couldn’t go back. Sir, I don’t know how to start as am writing this with tears.
I caught my husband having sex with his step mom last night, am in serious pains. I haven’t been able to eat since yesterday till now. Though am not a sex type cause we can go one month without sex, at a time my husband stopped complaining so I thought he’s now use to it. I never knew what has been going on under my nose.
God I feel like dying, two of them have been begging since morning for me to forgive and not tell anyone. Please sir I need advice cause am running mad already.
Marriage Chronicles: Nobody want to be cheated on. Cheating on you with his step mom is the height of it. You don’t really know how long they have been having this abominable relationship and that they said sorry doesn’t mean they going to end it.
However, you can blackmail them into ending the relationship with the fact that they won’t want people to know about it. Let them know you will let the whole world know if they ever continue the relationship.
Finally, take some time to think and observe them, don’t be aggressive or abusive or rash in your actions. Let your silence and calmness reveal the sincerity of their plea. You obviously still love your husband and you may just have to forgive him…though not going to be easy but it is very possible to forgive him. I also want to advise you to work on your sex life because men are sex animals (that’s why most ladies refer to them as dogs). They can get it anywhere, anyhow, so it is highly imperative to give your man sexual satisfaction….same goes to you too. You need more sex than a once-in-a-month intercourse or no intercourse at all for a month plus.
Your marriage is in your hands at this point, don’t allow the devil to destroy what you have built over the months or years.