I’m a woman of 43 and have been single for three years. I met this lovely man of 45 who has now moved in with me. My new lover is fantastic in every way apart from in the bedroom.
Things were going great with my new partner and I recently moved in, but I soon realized he isn’t great in the bedroom.
He is very thoughtful but sexually a quick fumble kind of guy.
How do I raise the subject with him that I’m not satisfied just by intercourse alone? Can you advise me how to approach this subject without hurting his feelings?
Very few women are satisfied by intercourse alone, so the problem is his lack of sexual know-how, not that you’re any sort of sexual freak or failure. However, we can’t always get all we want in one person. So it is okay if you try to help him in improving on his libido and sexual prowess.
