Written by Wealth Femi.
A man is attracted to a woman for two reasons; SEX and LOVE. But in most cases, his first need is s!x and more s!x. However when it comes to the issue of marriage, men do not Marry for Sex or for Love, they marry for STABILITY and RESPECT.
Let me explain; A man can Love you and not Marry you. A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who will respect and stabilize him, he starts thinking about marrying her.
What I mean by Stability is “Peace of Mind”. An unstable man is a man who lacks peace of mind. I have seen some guys who made this statement “I love this lady but I don’t think I can spend the rest of my life with her.”
Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding dresses, bridesmaids, anything that most ladies think is fanciful. They think whether this woman can build me a home, Can she take care of my kids and I, Can she give me PEACE of mind? Will she always respect me? Men don’t like Ladies who give them discomfort or who engage them in unhealthy competition. This is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her. It’s the comfort of having Peace of Mind they want.
Sex is a pleasure…it can be gotten from anyone. Love is an affection….it can be gotten from anybody. But Respect and Stability is not found everywhere or in everybody, they are a function of Good Character.
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